Today, I will teach you about betatization, the slow, painful, and humiliating process where a man—once a lion—gets castrated into a house kitten by his own woman. You will understand how it happens, why it happens, who it happens to, and how to never let it happen to you.
I will grab you by the balls today, and if you don’t have any left, I will help you regrow them. Come closer.
What kind of a man gets castrated?
Not all men can be betatized. Only the weak ones.
- The Man Who Marries Poor and Powerless
Let’s get something straight—a broke man has no business marrying a girl.
You cannot enforce respect when you’re worried about next month’s rent.
A man who marries while financially weak enters the relationship from a position of begging—
begging for peace, begging for loyalty, begging for basic respect.
A woman cannot submit to a man who needs her more than she needs him.
If you are poor, a woman will do one of two things:
Leave you and find a real leader.
Stay with you but rule over you like a queen rules over a peasant. Treating you like a little puppy.
Either way, you lose.
- The Man Who Marries a Zebra (An Untameable Wild Woman)
Some men try to domesticate zebras—wild, untameable women who should never be in a man’s home.
These women are:
Rebellious, always challenging authority
Disrespectful, talking to you like a child
Attention-seeking, constantly needing social validation
Marrying a zebra is trying to turn a street dog into a guard dog.
No matter how much you train it, it will still chase motorcycles and sniff trash.
A man who marries a beautiful, high-maintenance, characterless woman because “she’s so sexy” will wake up one day realizing…
He is the woman in the relationship.
- The Man Who Worships His Woman Instead of His Mission
If you prioritize a woman over your purpose, you are already betatized.
Women respect men who are on a mission.
The moment you start neglecting your goals, your power, your self-improvement just to make her happy, she loses respect for you.
Your woman should be like a passenger in your car—not the driver, not the GPS, not the owner of the vehicle.
If she ever senses that you are driving to impress her instead of driving to reach your destination, she will open the door and jump out.
And you’ll be left looking like an idiot, asking yourself “What did I do wrong?”
HOW BETATIZATION HAPPENS (THE STEP-BY-STEP DESTRUCTION OF A MAN)
- First, You Were a King
At the start, you were strong, dominant, and unshakable.
You made decisions, she followed, and she loved you for it.
- You Start Making Small Compromises (“It’s just a little thing… right?”)
You start asking for permission instead of informing her.
You start explaining yourself too much.
You skip gym to cuddle.
You spend time with her instead of working on your goals.
It seems small at first.
But every time you soften yourself for her, she takes mental notes.
- She Starts Shit-Testing You (And You Start Failing)
She begins pushing buttons.
She disrespects you in public.
She makes fun of you in front of others.
She starts making decisions without consulting you.
And instead of checking her immediately, you say:
“Babe, that’s not nice.”
“Please don’t talk to me like that.”
“Why are you being like this?”
Instead of punishing her bad behavior, you beg for her to stop.
At this point, she knows she owns you.
- She Becomes the Man, You Become the Woman
Now, she talks to you like a mother talks to a child.
She sends you on errands.
She stops respecting your decisions.
She starts fantasizing about real men (while you become her personal assistant in the house).
At this stage, if she cheats, she won’t even feel guilty.
Because in her mind…
She’s not cheating on a man. She’s cheating on a pet.
THE FATE OF THE BETATIZED MAN
A man who gets betatized has two options:
- Continue suffering until he is completely neutered and turned into a pathetic excuse of a man.
- Wake up, reclaim his balls, and correct his mistakes before it’s too late.
Some men never recover.
They spend years begging for respect from a woman who now sees them as a weakling.
Some wake up, leave, and rebuild themselves as men.
These are the lucky ones.
THE WISEMAN’S SOLUTION: HOW TO AVOID BETATIZATION FOREVER
- Never Marry Poor
Marriage is not for the weak.
If you are not financially stable, you cannot be a leader in your home.
Your woman must see that you are in control of your world.
If you don’t have at least a Two Bedroom House of your own, don’t marry yet.
Women are being born every day.
- Never Marry a Zebra
If a woman has no qualities of a wife, she cannot become one magically after marriage.
You cannot train a zebra to be a warhorse.
She will become a big liability.
- Never Let Her Become Your Mission
Your mission is your empire—your wealth, your fitness, your dominance.
If a woman becomes your mission, you are finished.
A man obsessed with his woman is like a general who trades his sword for a bouquet of flowers—laughable and doomed.
She must fit into your mission, not become it.
- Always Be Ready to Walk Away
Nothing is more terrifying to a woman than a man who doesn’t fear losing her.
The moment she senses you’re afraid of being alone, you’re done.
Be the kind of man who, if she disrespects you,
can replace her before sunset.
- Master the Dark Triad Traits
A bit of narcissism, a touch of Machiavellianism, and a sprinkle of psychopathy keep things exciting.
No, don’t go full serial killer—but a little cold calculation, strategic detachment, and unapologetic self-interest ensure you remain the predator, not the prey.
- Keep Her on Her Toes
Predictability is the death of attraction.
If she knows your every move, she gets bored.
Keep some mystery.
Disappear for hours without explanation.
Show sudden bursts of ambition.
Make decisions she doesn’t expect.
Keep her guessing—it keeps her obsessed.
- Never Let Her Control Your Time
The moment you cancel gym, skip business meetings, or stop hanging with the boys because “she needs you,” you are finished.
Women secretly despise men who are too available.
Your time should be more valuable than gold.
If she wants a piece of it, she better earn it.
- Be Physically Dominant
A weak man can be bossed around.
A strong man commands respect without saying a word.
If you can’t lift your woman over your shoulders and squat her, what are you even doing with her?
Build muscle. Dominate her physically.
Train combat.
Be capable of violence.
Women don’t admit it, but deep down, they respect brute force.
- Never Let Her Speak to You Disrespectfully
A woman will test you.
That’s her nature.
But if she talks to you like you’re her little brother, you’ve already lost.
The first time she raises her voice, laughs at you in mockery, or insults you, correct it immediately.
If she resists? She must leave, right now!
- Maintain the Abundance Mindset
A man who fears losing a woman is a man who has no options.
The more women you know, the less any single one can control you.
If she thinks you can replace her in five minutes, she will fight to keep you.
If she thinks you need her, she will slowly emasculate you.
- Control Your Emotions
Women are emotional storms—volatile, unpredictable, and explosive.
If you react like them, you lose.
When she cries, tests, or plays mind games, remain ice cold.
Emotional mastery is the difference between being the king or the court jester.
- Be the Judge, Not the Defendant
Most men enter relationships like criminals in court—constantly defending themselves.
“I swear I didn’t mean it like that!”
“I’ll make it up to you!”
No. Stop. You are the judge, not the accused.
If she throws accusations, flip it on her.
She should be proving her worth to you, not the other way around.
If she is unhappy with how you conduct business in your Kingdom, tell her, she can find a better man.
- Never Let Her Control the Bedroom
A man ruled by his desire is a slave.
If you need sex, she controls you.
Learn to withhold it strategically.
You don’t have to penetrate her every time her pussycat passes by your balls.
Flip the script—make her earn intimacy.
A man who can go without sex for a while has an iron grip on his own mind—and hers.
- Keep Her Slightly Insecure
Too much validation turns a woman into a monster.
A woman who thinks she has you 100% locked in will lose respect for you.
She should always wonder: “Does he love me? Does he still find me attractive? Can another woman take my place?”
That uncertainty keeps her in check.
- Never Marry Under the State
If a woman knows she can financially and legally destroy you, she has zero incentive to remain respectful.
Marriage laws favor women—it’s a trap.
If she loves you, she doesn’t need the government involved.
If she insists on it, she’s already planning her exit strategy.
A wise man doesn’t sign marriage certificates.
A man doesn’t do weddings.
He makes a girl pregnant and shows her where to stay to raise his bloodline .
Stay Ruthless or Get Neutered
Women don’t consciously want to betatize you.
It’s just their nature to test, push, and challenge.
They’re looking for the strongest man they can’t break.
If you fail these tests, they lose respect for you—and a woman who doesn’t respect you will slowly turn you into her obedient pet.
Follow these rules, and you’ll never be betatized.
Break them? Well… get ready for long nights of apologizing, washing dishes, and hearing, “We need to talk.”
Stay dangerous, stay dominant, and for the love of all things masculine—stay wild.
