Many men make a lot of foolish decisions when choosing a bride, often because they let emotions, lust, or societal pressure override logic.
Top 10 of Those Foolish Decisions include;
- Marrying a Woman With a High Body Count
A woman who has been with many men is often less capable of pair bonding, less likely to remain loyal, and more likely to divorce you.
If other men got her for free, why should you commit your life and resources to her?
- Marrying a Single Mother
You’re not just taking care of her, but also another man’s child.
If the biological father didn’t think she was worth staying for, why should you?
Worse, you’ll always be in the shadow of the child’s real father.
The Truth most women deny is that, they are sleeping with their baby daddies.
Don’t buy her narrative about how toxic the father(s) of the children are.
- Marrying a Feminist or “Modern Independent Woman”
A woman who constantly talks about her independence, career, and not needing a man is a disaster waiting to happen.
These women often devalue traditional wife roles, believe they can do better than you, and are more likely to initiate divorce.
- Choosing a Woman Based on Looks Alone
A beautiful woman with a terrible character will destroy your life.
Beauty fades, but bad attitude, entitlement, and lack of loyalty will stay.
Many men ignore red flags just because the woman is attractive.
- Ignoring Her Family Background
A woman raised in a broken or dysfunctional family is more likely to carry those problems into your marriage.
If she grew up without a father or in a home full of divorce and chaos, there’s a high chance she will replicate that in her own relationships.
- Marrying a Woman Who Has No Traditional Wife Skills
If she can’t cook, clean, or take care of a home, what exactly is she bringing to your life?
Many men marry women who offer nothing but sex and drama.
A wife should be an asset, not a liability.
- Marrying a Woman Who Spends More Than She Earns
If she is obsessed with material things, lives on debt, or always expects a man to fund her lifestyle, she will drain you financially.
These women never stop demanding more, and when you can’t provide, they’ll leave for a richer man.
- Rushing into Marriage Because of Pregnancy
Many men make the mistake of “doing the right thing” after getting a woman pregnant.
But if she wasn’t wife material before pregnancy, she won’t be after.
You’ll end up trapped in a miserable marriage, often with a woman who resents you.
- Ignoring Red Flags Because of Love
Some men see warning signs—disrespect, entitlement, cheating history, a bad attitude, use of drugs, poor dressing, having male friends…
but they ignore them because they’re in love or because “she’ll change.”
Spoiler: she won’t.
A man does not let Love Blind Him.
Have some Psychopathy buana.
- Marrying a Woman Who Has Been Engaged or Married Before
If she was engaged before and it didn’t work, or she was divorced, there’s a high chance she’ll do the same to you.
Marriage is a long-term investment, and past failures are often a sign of future ones.
A wise man chooses a wife like he would choose a business partner,
based on logic, value, and long-term compatibility.
Most men get trapped because they prioritize emotions over strategy.
