Most men live in a delusion. They think a woman’s attraction is binary—either she likes you or she doesn’t. But the truth is far more savage: women experience attraction in levels, and if you don’t understand them, you’ll waste time chasing women who barely tolerate you while ignoring the ones who would burn the world to have you.
Attraction isn’t a simple Yes or No—it’s a scale from 0 to 10, ranging from pure disgust to obsessive desire. Where you fall on this scale determines whether she ghosts you after a free dinner, keeps you in the “maybe” zone, or worships you like a tribal god.
Let’s metabolize this!
0-3: The Land of Indifference and Repulsion
If you’re here, congratulations—she doesn’t want you.
Maybe she’s polite about it, maybe she’s not, but the end result is the same: you have no chance.
Signs you’re in this miserable zone:
❌ She avoids being alone with you.
❌ She replies to your texts three business days later—if at all.
❌ She calls you “bro” (RIP).
❌ She laughs at you, not with you.
❌ Her body tenses when you touch her.
What’s happening here?
Either she’s disgusted by you, uninterested, or completely oblivious to your existence.
If you think persistence will change this, you’re in for heartbreak.
If a woman sees you as a zero, even Jesus descending from heaven can’t save you. Move on.
Keep building your body, mind, business and assume she doesn’t exist.
Ignore her.
4-8: The Zone of Interest (But Not Obsession)
Now we’re getting somewhere.
In this range, you’re attractive to her, but she’s not fully locked in.
She might like you, but she won’t chase you.
4-6: You’re Just Another Guy
At this level, she enjoys your presence but wouldn’t care if you disappeared.
You’re an option, not a priority.
Signs she sees you as a 4-6:
⚠️ She responds to your texts, but never initiates.
⚠️ She laughs at your jokes, but you feel like a background character.
⚠️ She makes plans with you—but cancels easily.
⚠️ She’ll sleep with you… but only if nothing better comes along.
This is the danger zone where men get strung along.
She likes you enough to keep you around, but not enough to truly desire you.
If you’re here, she’s evaluating you against other options.
7-8: Strong Attraction (But Not Devotion)
Now we’re talking.
Women in this range genuinely like you.
They respect you, prioritize you, and enjoy your company.
Signs she sees you as a 7-8:
✅ She texts first sometimes.
✅ She’s physically affectionate without hesitation.
✅ She makes plans with you—and follows through.
✅ She’s sexually interested, but she still has her own life.
✅ She introduces you to friends and seems proud to have you around.
This is a solid place to be, but it’s not supernatural, can’t-live-without-you attraction.
She’s into you, but she could still walk away if things shift.
You want to aim higher.
9-10: The Holy Grail – Obsessive, Irrational Attraction
Welcome to paradise.
When a woman sees you as a 9 or 10, she’s in primal, emotional chaos.
Logic is gone.
You’ve tapped into her deepest biological wiring—and now she’s yours.
Signs she sees you as a 9-10:
🔥 She chases you—texts first, plans dates, and fights for your attention.
🔥 She initiates sex more than you do.
🔥 She mirrors your mannerisms, slang, and worldview.
🔥 She cancels plans with others just to be available for you.
🔥 She fantasizes about breastfeeding your children.
🔥 She seeks your approval above anyone else’s.
🔥 She says, “I’ve never felt this way before.”
(That’s when you know you’ve won exclusive breeding rights.)
A woman at 9-10 attraction will fight to keep you.
She won’t let another woman take her place, and she’ll reshape her entire life around yours.
This is the level where a woman belongs to you, body and soul.
How to Move Up the Scale
You can’t beg, bribe, or “be nice” to increase attraction.
Women don’t work like that.
If you want to move from 6 to 9, you need to increase your value:
✔ Dominate your body – Lift heavy, eat like a warrior, and carry yourself with strength.
Attraction is physical first—don’t let anyone lie to you.
✔ Master your mind – Women crave leaders, not followers.
Have a vision. Speak with certainty. Move with purpose.
✔ Be scarce – Women value what’s hard to get.
Stop flooding her phone with texts and start making her chase you.
✔ Maintain control – A woman’s respect is worth more than her affection.
If she senses weakness, attraction dies.
Every interaction with a woman puts you somewhere on this scale.
The weak man stays stuck in the 4-6 range, begging for scraps.
The strong man commands 9-10 attraction effortlessly.
Attraction isn’t luck—it’s built.
And now that you know the rules, you’ll never waste another second on a woman who isn’t all in.
Remember, it is women who should show strong signs of interest, not you.
